i spent the night yesterday at my aunty house. it has been ages since i spent the night at her house. but Ashley is at home with her grandparents while ah boy is working night shift.

something made me shock, or rather disappointed to me today.
here goes:

ah boy received a call from his mother asking whether we having dinner at home later. after that, she told him that his nephew will be at our place till sunday. because tonight and tommorow noght there is a religion lesson, which me and ah boy also planned to go. therefore, they will be leaving their son two noghts here.

after we reached home in the evening, we heard from his mum that yesterday night is a little chaos cos we have got two babies at home and both me and ah boy are not at home.

i donno why, but it kept me thinking:
why do they have to leave their son overnoght and not come pick him up when they have finish the lesson? cant they see that their mum is tired too? and do they realised that by leaving their son here, it means that me and ah boy cant go to the lesson too?

i wasnt so frustrated at first, but ah oy's sister told her mum that she wants to leave her son here overnight here, so that she can sleep at night.

it again kept me thinking that their son is only a month pold plus. wont they miss their son? wont they want to do some bonding with him?

i donno but this matter has been ringing in my mind all this while. i suddenly feel that i don understand them at all..

hmm...i think now all it matters is ah boy being with me all this while and...HE IS NOT WORKING THIS WEEKEND!!